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Sounds like both you and I need to concentrate on what's best for US first, get our act together and not worry about outside things. I'm for having asked Jerry to take us to the beach.

Maybe you need to let your daughter's caregive worry about her for a while until you get your life under control, then you'll know better how to deal with your daughter.