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Originally Posted by hankster
A third alternative could have been to go for a walk to begin with. I don't agree that a man should "restrain" a woman or sit on top of her. That is kidnapping. "Love" is not an excuse for holding someone without their consent and I really don't see her consent in this, I see you overpowering her, verbally, and when that doesn't get you the answers and results you want, then physically. She has the right to do whatever she wants to her body; you, sir, do not. If you want to call the police to stop her from harming herself, if you feel she is truly in imminent danger, by law you may do that. I will no longer follow this thread. There should be a trigger for violence against women on it. I wish you all the best.
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Okay, that post seriously ****ed me off.
1) You're saying I should have just sat there and left her to it? Made popcorn perhaps?
2) You're saying I kidnapped her? wow, okay. At no point was I trying to overpower her verbally. If you actually read my post I said I was telling her it was okay and that I loved her.
3) Of course she didn't consent. She was trying to hurt herself. I was trying to stop her. I was trying to protect her from herself.
4) What part of 'Sitting on top of her, trying to put her hands in mine, holding her close, and telling her that it was okay and that I loved her' constitutes as violence?
****ing christ, did you even read what I posted?
Sorry everyone.
Anyway, quick update.
Things are 'Back to normal' now. She said she's realised how much she loved me, and how much she misses me. We're meeting up on sunday to cuddle and watch some movies. She admits that it was just a depressive phase and that I was right when I said such.
Thank you to everyone who gave me advice, it seems alot of it wasn't necessary however. I appreciate that you have all taken your time to help. This thread doesn't need any further but you can reply if you wish.
@ Hankster, I also asked her about last week. She said that I was really strong that day, and that although it frustrated her a bit, she was glad I restrained her because if I didnt she said she would have felt like I didnt care. But that doesn't matter since i'm obviously a violent man who kidnapps my fiance and forces her to do my bidding.