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Old Nov 19, 2011, 12:11 AM
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a little while ago i set up a new tournament in the arcade (for booger flick omg it is hilarious ) and i was waiting for another person to join it and have just realised i completely missed playing in my own tournament . when i set it up it said:

player gets reminder after 3 days without playing
player gets disqualified after 7 days without playing

but i never got any reminder and no notification that it had started. i'm just wondering if it really does send a reminder and if so, what setting do i have to change to get the reminder.

lol to any future opponents: it appears pretty easy to beat me - just turn up
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him.

Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there.

Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so.