He loves you for who you are not your looks. Looks probably help him get in the mood. But, he loves you not just your looks. I hope you will find the help you need to be able to regain your self confidence in this area of your life. Please talk to your husband about how you feel and let what ever he says sink in real deep if possible. He will probably (no guarantees) try to reassure you about your desirability and his heartfelt love for you