I am trying to do that, but it is difficult! The baby is due any day now &because it is a big thing in our lives at the moment, don't feel I can talk to my daughter, as she is unwilling to mention either her brother or the baby. I am hoping that after she is born, maybe things can get back to being reasonably normal. I have sat down & talked to her, but when she went round to DIL's she didn't apologise , so DIL was still very upset! Daughter doesn't want to discuss anything to do with alternatives.
They both had a good relationship with each other & used to discuss the fact they were both trying. Daughter just says that she wanted to be first for once, after being the second child & grandchild, but I am afraid that is life!!
Hoping for less stormy seas after this week.