This is bs. Don't let anyone make you feel this way! She is suppose to help you. You are human and she is too....people who talk this way to others are ignorant humans. YOU are strong and capable of anything. YOU ARE the SURVIVOR! You survived your past, this is the easy part! Stay strong, be happy, surround yourself with good natured events and happy places and people. I personally love the beach ALL year long. Keep strong! I have faith in you!