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Originally Posted by MsBunny
（*Ｔ▽Ｔ）You must be so fed up with seeing my threads! But you've mentioned that you have known gay people so that makes your responses have a lot of meaning to me. The way you sum things up makes me feel stupid for doubting myself. Even though I don't feel convinced when I think to myself that "I'm straight," all the evidence is there so I can still believe in that. Thank you.
I'm looking at coming out stories and am feeling a bit better (I get highs and lows like that) because these girls feel the same way that I feel/felt about men.
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MsBunny - honestly I'm not fed up at all. I've had experience in the Q&A section with this type of question. Usually I can spot the difference in the question as to whether the person might really be gay or if this is caused by OCD or obsessive thinking. You're the one who knows for sure but the problem is, a person who has OCD can't always trust the obsessive thoughts. If you've always been straight with no doubts, then you're probably safe with that.
I don't want anyone to take me wrong and think I'm against a poster realizing his/her sexual orientation. I'm all for people being who they are and I had a brother who was gay. If you reassure yourself you're not going to let the thoughts bother you, this should help. You can also think it would be perfectly fine if you were, so you don't have to stress about it. If someone said you were, doesn't have any justification for thinking you are.
