WOW seems like this tread is a touchy subject brought on further by someone saying whats right and wrong .. Theres no point starting BS here as this is a community of people getting, offering and plain ole good advice ..

My 2 cents .. I adore my T hes has helped me so much .. I know he cares for me as im losing my health insurance the end of the year but has already told me he will continue to see me at no charge ... I care for him like i would a friend .. regardless of my paying him ... Hes guiding me thru lots of baggage and nonsense .. I trust him completly but he earned that trust .. we are a good fit for therapy ...

Noone has the correct answer on this topic ...people are too multidimensional for anyone to make broad statements about feelings and how there therapy is going.

Good luck