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Originally Posted by TayQuincy
My therapist is a professional but I am not, therefore I am under no obligation to be professional on my side of the relationship. 
I feel very sad for you, and those who think like you and believe that being a professional prohibits emotional involvement in the relationship. It only shows what you, personally, have not experienced. |
I didn't say that. I said: I 'have felt these types of emotions towards both male and female Ts.'
Emotions are all that matter, that's why we're there in the first place! But it seems that
the relationship itself is what is causing the problems.
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Originally Posted by TayQuincy
Not true. I haven't paid my former T since we ended therapy 10 years ago, but we still have a relationship (professional), she still cares deeply for me, and she is still there.
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You are one of the lucky ones, what about all of the people who get 'dumped' by their t's by text, email, phone etc.
As I said above:
if they were not being paid they would not be there. I still maintain that this is the case in the vast majority of cases! A t. is like a teacher. Some good, some bad. Some care, some don't. Some are in it for the money, some are in it to help.
But all of them get VERY well paid at the end of the week!