I'd just like to add a thougt here.
Keep in mind that sometimes the fantasy is better than reality.
You'll never know till you try, of course.
Fantasy is always hot.
reality is, uncomfortable, pinchy, pully, never gets hair in it's mouth, never gets chafed, or rug burned, or smell awful, or hurt like you never imagined - I'm sure you get the idea byt now.
But maybe one more- in Fantasy you never have to come face to face with someone who knows something so intimate about you. especialy something potentialy humiliating.
I mean when you gotta, you gotta. But be sure of the person you're with. be sure they are solid people, not fickle or flighty, if you understand what i mean. and as much of a cold wet blanket as it is, keep safety in mind.