I'm glad we didn't entirely scare you off. I don't understand the response here. We have discussed this topic a million times, at least - is this a "real" relationship - yet just because this guy comes in and says he "noticed" something - which anyone in therapy should realize may say more about himself - we attack and talk down to him? The viciousness of the attack makes me wonder. I don't think you all were defending me in particular, or others who post in the Romantic feelings forum. So why such a primal response? What are we really in denial about? HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW???* We're in denial! Therapy sux! *Answer: let T help us. So easy, yet it's not.

Thanks, John. Otherwise Saturday night would have been so boring!