Well, it didn't work out "in one fell swoop" but I feel really good about him not living here anymore. The fact that I can tell him to "go home" when he starts annoying me as he continues to move his things out is a great PLUS. Like I said! "Call me Stupid" for having asked him to take me to the beach! Sometimes I forget what an idiot he really is! A thirty year history is not easy to earse. Emotions lose their intensity when there's relief from them, ya know.