This is a good chance for you to build the relationship with your T if you want to work through it. Sometimes this can't be worked through. But just like any other relationship, we have choices to make. If you do want to work through it, respond back and just let her know how the situation made you feel. Allow yourself to be mad or hurt with T. And allow her to respond to that pain. Ask her those hard questions about why it took so long and what was she thinking!

T's are humans. Humans can make HUGE mistakes at times. But a relationship can be mended through honest communication if that is what both parties want. It won't be the same relationship. But it will be an alive relationship. And what I have learned is that by working through the ruptures, it causes the bond between me and my T to become stronger than even before the rupture.

Bottom line is that you do have a choice in this situation. And there is not a wrong answer.