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Old Nov 20, 2011, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Out_of_denial View Post
She did make a HUGE mistake. I do want to work through it, but I don't know if her ego will allow her to accept that it was nothing more then a simple mistake.

I am not the squeaky wheel and I give her a lot of slack. I don't think she realized just how much I hung on her every word. I don't think she realized just how devastating this would be to me.
I am confused; you say it was a HUGE mistake but only a simple mistake; you are not the squeaky wheel but hung on her every word and was devastated.

It sounds like you are confused and derailed in a way that will not be straightforward in setting right by discussion with this T. I would let go of this T and find one who had a better, more consistent therapy frame.
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Thanks for this!
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