It seems to me that your T, no matter how nice a person she might be, can not really be in a position of offering therapy to others. She obviously has some real problems and I can't imagine ever trusting my emotions to her when she is not trustworthy enough to 'catch' her own absence until days later.

I can't imagine how one could 'work through this' with her. Is there any good cause for her absence that would make sense except that she was in a coma for those days? This is too weirdly bizarre to just let it go. This is serious, in my opinion.

But, I would love to hear any reasons why my take is off point. I am just completely bewildered by this story.