Thanks Fayerody, bebop, tracylee and JMO. I have about lost it now, the papers were served on my son Sat AM, and he HID the one for his wife, not wanting to "ruin their Easter"......like he doesnt realize how all this is "ruining" me, and my granddaughter?!?!?!?!? Right now he is not talking to me, and kissing up to her big time. I also got served on Sat.....and waited for her to either show up or call, and trouble start, but here it is Monday afternoon, and she still doesnt even know about it ! Go figure.......since my doing this was a JOINT decision between my son and me. On top of all this garbage, my eardrum ruptured yesterday and I feel horrible ! Murphy's Law I guess. Oh well..... what doesnt kill us, makes us stronger.