I have been going through anger issues with my depressed 19 year old. She too gets very angry and verbally abusive to everyone in the house. She too has been on medication and she is still trying to find the right dose for her. I do understand how hard this is on your family as well as yourself. When she is having a bad day, I try to keep her younger sisters busy or out of the house for a while, (they are only 4 and 6 so, they were having trouble with her outbursts). Keep your chin up and know that there are other people dealing with similar issues. My thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself too, this can be very hard on a person.