My first gyno told me 2 things when I went for The Pill about half a century ago (okay, that's an exaggeration, only 40 years ago) that I LATER REALIZED I did not pay enough attention to! Don't let this happen to you! 1. Get your butt UP - put a pillow under if you need to. 2. Use lots of lube. I would add, try to educate yourself. I saw a new documentary on the G-spot recently, seems they are STILL discovering (or inventing!) things about the female anatomy. But you're obviously "functional" - you just need more practice! And NOT to feel like you're being forced. Also, if you are taking meds, some could affect sexual ability.