Not every T is skilled or has the training to handle certain things....maybe this isn't an area of therapy that she is strong in & that may be coming out through her response to you on this subject. You may need a different T who is more skilled & has more training in the topic of sexual issues.

It's definitely important to discuss this with her rather than to JUST ASSUME ANYTHING. Think having another session & talking through what your feelings & thoughts are on this is important not only for you, but for her also.