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Originally Posted by Out_of_denial
What do you mean?
She hasn't offered me an appointment and I already missed last week, this week and probably next week. I think she doesn't want to see me because it makes her feel bad. She used that to get me to back off when she abandoned me for a month in August. I know. She says that was my doing, but I know it was not. I have a trail of emails that is more then clear what happened, but I never pushed it, because she felt bad. That time I had cancelled the appointment before she disappeared.
I can't believe how thoughtless she is being.
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She didn't offer you an appointment?! Good grief! Here I was trying to not read defensiveness in what she said, but now I think there is a lot of it there. I understand it - when we screw up, it's natural. But as a T, she ought to have better control of herself. She should have apologized and acknowledged your worry that is about you and not responded with everything that is about her. So now that you've said more, it's clearer to me. I think her response was defensive and dismissive. She wasn't responding to you, she was responding to her own guilt and in a defensive way.