She picked a good profession. If she were a claims agent or a corporate lawyer, someone who dealt with basically balanced, mentally healthy people, she'd forever be getting fired. Sadly for us but lucky for her, she stays employed and goes on to destroy the trust & hard work of who knows how many other people coming to her for help?

Please, out_of_denial, see her once more if you must--but only to say you deserve better & are leaving her to find it.

Roadrunner