Well like I told you all HE LEFT ME. So now I can't get him to do anything. His sister came over to visit me yesterday and she told me that he is back to going out every night and staying out late with all kinds of loser freinds from his military days.

She also told me something I did not know. She said that he used to use marijuana. That he quit while he was with me but that she now suspects that he is using again.

Anyway, I guess I have been released of my problem of what to do. I can't do anything now.

But I am really feeling alone with out him and so so very let down about his return to what we all know is not a good place for him to be.

Your kind words heal my heart. Thanks to all of you.