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Originally Posted by RomanSunburn
LateBloomer, here's my question for you.. What do you want? Do you want to feel passion and be in love with your husband again? Because, personally, I believe if you want it, then you can get it back. It would be work, sure, but I think it's do-able.
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I think I'm questioning if I EVER felt passion for husband... I was so skittish back then that I was only comfortable because I did NOT feel passion. Yes, we'd have sex - but unless I was reading some steamy text in a novel and already 'ready', getting wet was always an issue - but not knowing any better, thought that was just how it was.
I never knew that thinking of a person could make you feel tingly, or something suggestive they said could make you get wet or feel impatient to get alone with them...
But now I have felt that...but never with him... So I think my question is - can I create that type of attraction if I don't naturally feel it? Or is it true that u can have a best friend, try being lovers, but realize you are better as best friends?