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I do what someone else said...Whenever I have the urge to write and send someone a letter/text/email/anything, I learned to NEVER send the letter the same day....I always make myself wait one day, and then if I still feel the need to send it, then I will send it...
And how do I deal with relationships while depressed? I hiberenate...Isolate myself...Don't accept any calls or respond to texts...I will lay on the couch, preferrably the bed, get my remote, get my snacks and juice, and lay around all day...Watch tv...Sleep off and on...My fiance doesn't like it, calls me lazy...I shut everyone out...Everyone in the house gets one worded answers...At work, when I don't feel like being bothered, I just smile and say, "hello" and keep it moving...I stay in my cubicle all day and please don't come in my cubicle on an "off" day...Unless you are a supervisor or manager, don't ask me stupid questions or disturb me...I promise you, you won't like what I say or how I say it...Luckily I work a job where I don't have to be bothered with folks...I come in, do my job, and leave...On a good day, I will converse with folks, but besides that, you DON'T want to talk to me...Believe me...
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Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, & Wisdom to know the difference.
To live is to suffer, and to survive is to find meaning in that suffering
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