Do you realize that beside seeking therapy yourself you're trying to be your therapist's therapist? Talk about a house of cards ...

I am so afraid for you that the days are going to continue to pass & you just aren't going to cut this cord that binds you to her in time. I'm not worried about her. Is anyone else here? Except out_of_denial?

I'm sorry if I'm being harsh. What she's set you up to do to yourself is--or ought to be--criminal.

I do care about you. But I guess right now I'm mostly afraid for you.

Roadrunner