Skysblue...

I guess my question is in the midst of the waivering do you know deep down that you can stll trust T? That is ALWAYS what I have to look at when I start waivering. Then ask why I am waivering. If it involves T directly something she said,didnt say, did, didnt do....I take it to her directly. Often times it is a misunderstanding of some sort we work it out and I am back to 100% in it. Really no matter what it is I take it to T because that is my best option to looking at it clearly. She has never tried to talk me out of leaving it has always been working out/through the exact situation.