I can only sympathize. I have been divorced for almost 13 years and haven't seen my ex-husband since then either yet he still invades my dreams. I often have dreams where I'm with my ex-husband but really want to be with my now husband. I always feel so guilty about these dreams and am always so angry that they invade my mind. I just want to forget about my ex. The worst dream I had was when my ex-husband shot me. I remember it so vividly and can still feel the pain. I just wish it would all go away.