When I was a baby my mom told me that I would only stop crying if it was my dad holding me. As I got older I was always closer to my mom, though. I feel kind of nervous being alone with just my dad. For some reason I feel more comfortable just having my mom in the room. I like to go shopping with her and all that and feel really bad that I'm not closer to my dad. My one friend is closer to her dad but maybe it's because her parents are separated and she lives with her strict mom and her easy-going dad seems so cool to her.

But are girls more likely to be lesbians if they seem closer to their mom? Doesn't that make them closer to girls and more comfortable being around girls- which makes them prefer girls to men and that makes one a lesbian?

If any of you guys are lesbians can you look at my first-ever post and let me know if you relate to anything I've been going through?