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Old Nov 22, 2011, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by bubsmiley View Post
My H. doesn't understand dissociation and said every time you hurt yourself you've DECIDED to hurt me.

I hear this as an ultimatum - either quit SI'ing or he'll leave.
These 2 phrases don't mean the same thing.

Can you pull some stuff off the internet to show your husband to help him to understand SI and dissociation?
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