Goodness you all, I am so humbled by your responses. Alot of times we post here and wonder if anyone even notices.

I ended up doing an IOP program about a year ago. I hated it and got very little out of it. That being said, the Lamictal seemed to help. My weight issues became bad again during the last six months. My therapist doesn't weigh me, but reminds me that the IP recommendations were a bit higher than my actual weight. I saw my pdoc who works with my t. He said that my weight was ok.
He did recommend the Seroquell, but doesn't get the mind games it causes.

What am I to do? Do I ask of a higher dose of Lamictal would help? Is 400 mg a lot? Does anyone know of a mood stabilizer that has no weight issues? I'm seriously at the point where I want to take scissors and cut off my fat!!!!