Are you being too "nice"? You are not being heard. You might not be acting assertively enough. I'm only saying this because I have had this issue. Then when I finally blow up, people are all like, gee, you need to learn how to be assertive, not aggressive. And I'm like, I only told you a hundred times! This is why I have not talked to anybody in the past 8 years, pretty much, BTW. Are you the person I kept telling young people are great T's? I owe you a major apology. Give this girl T an education.