My best friend at school is Aspergic, and unlike me, he hasn't even thought about personal growth.

His wife loves him, but she finds him emotionally unavailable and has to spend a lot of time with non-Aspergic friends to make up for it. I think my mother was in exactly the same position and coped in exactly the same way.

So it's not easy being married to an Aspergic.

As for Aspergic-Aspergic marriages, I don't think I've ever seen one, so I can't comment. I read somewhere that complementary personalities make the best marriages.

My marriage has been a great success. We've both been in therapy and we have grown together.