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Originally Posted by fight-flight
'''i hate how whenever i have issues i cant just tell someone who is supposed to be there for support, to care, to advise'''
I understand. Im from a family are 'fixers'. They find it very hard to just to soak up a rant and act as sounding boards. Its therefore hard to open up to those close to you because sometimes all you need to say is ..'Life is *****!' ..without them feeling a responsibility to try and fix you/the problem. Its like, you dont have a voice without opening up a can of worms and causing more of a problem. The other thing is ..you start to bottle it up because you feel misunderstood and dont want to make things worse.
You are not more of a problem than you are worth..its just a rant , a release, you need to be heard
Rant on Vicki ..I hear ya !
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exactly,

pluss my councelor is being rude. trying to tell me how to live. insted of actualy listing to what i tell her. so i was realy frustrated yesterday.
-thanks