get a letter from your doctor stating that due to medical reasons you cannot have this type of stress.

get a copy of your lease - check to see if it says anything about regular inspections.

Also fury keep in mind that she is not allowed to rag on you for normal wear and tear.

I would contact the local tenancy board to see what info they can provide to you. And no, they cant make you get rid of your things unless it is a fire hazard/some other type of hazard.