Regarding the moderated messages Ygrec - it will continue to say "this is a moderated message and show a notification. To get rid of this you have to click the box which will bring a 'check mark' and then scroll all the way down to where you have choices to delete a message etc. ....pick the choice 'approve message', then click 'GO' and this will make the notification go away and the 'moderated message' on the actual message from that member. As for why you still have notification for non moderated I don't know. Trying signing in and out and clearing your browser. Hope this helps. In order for this to work you have to check mark the small box on the message.