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Old Nov 25, 2011, 05:00 AM
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Hi ~ It sounds to me like your boyfriend ISN'T "the one" -- if he was, you wouldn't have gotten so 'smitten' with this other guy. It's good you found it out now, instead of after you got married!

Even if you and Bob don't continue the relationship, I'd say goodbye to the boyfriend and keep looking. Obviously it isn't right, or you wouldn't have fallen for Bob. So let the boyfriend down gently, and move on. You'll be glad you did. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee