
Nov 25, 2011, 05:30 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Who knows why people look for or insist on perfection. Maybe they want their "fantasy mate." LOL
What things about YOU could SHE list? Like you said, no one is perfect, and there are probably things about you that get her goat.
Since she did try to 'fix' the situation while you were together, and it didn't work, she may just have had enough. I'm sure she does need to heal, but the end result may not be the two of you back together.
I'd suggest counseling for you -- you've been thru alot, especially having to go to Iraq. That alone could cause problems --- but you mentioned being jealous, suspicious, angry & paranoid. These emotions could crop up again if they aren't addressed.
I wish you the very best. I guess all you can do is take one day at a time. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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