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Old Nov 25, 2011, 10:49 AM
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When I met my boyfriend, he told me he had 4 kids. Fine, two are grown already so I figured I could handle that. He also casually mentioned that there are a few other kids that he "looks out for". So, after like 9 months later, he tells me that he's letting the daughter of his ex move in his house because her mother is a piece of **** that has no clue how to parent or pay her ****ing rent (my words, not his, but that is the reason) and he promised she wouldn't be around long.

It's been 5 months and the ***** is still in his house. She works, but she gives money to her mom which she ****s over, she supports her sorry *** boyfriend that doesn't work, she's not saving any money to leave and she has no plan.

I told my boyfriend that I don't appreciate this, he won't do anything and just tells me to deal with it. Since he didn't tell me about her from the beginning, I'm not accepting her as a part of my life. I want her away from me, but he won't budge. He says he's going to tell her something has to give by Jan. 1st, but I don't believe him.

So, how should I handle this? Any advice is appreciated.