If she was that important he should have mentioned her from the get go and let me decide if I want to deal with it or not. That's something that shouldn't be a surprise. "Hey, remember when I told you I had 4 kids, well guess what? I have 8, so, deal with it." That's not cool. Also, don't tell me she won't be here long and renig on that too. He can do what he wants, but I should have been told. All this could have been avoided if he told me from the beginning. I could have chosen to deal or not.