What I've discovered is that the more I lack confidence in myself, the more people lack confidence in me. Many of us are highly sensitive people and are constantly worried about approval. You have something valuable, because your sensitivity shows that you have a heart, but sometimes these feelings can be channeled wrong and leave you feeling the wrong way. I don't dislike you and many others here don't either and most of us don't know you personally to really have a reason to dislike you. In your personal life, you are always going to come across people that you don't jive right with, but it is probably going to happen more so if you allow it to happen with a nervous, worried, negative attitude. These feelings throw people off and make them feel uncomfortable and you'll probably mistake that for people not liking you.
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