Sleeps- you are so kind to reply-- you set aside your situation with therapy and respond to me---
I must say you have a very very big heart

I think you're right about slowing down--- the hard part for me is letting him know that!!! If I need to slow down then something in me says I'm not good enough-- but then if I go forward and fall on my face I'm a failure also. hhmmmm....... I've been here before...... wonder if it's common to put one's self in a lose/lose situation?? I'm figuring out I do that A LOT!!

Thanks for your reply Sleeps-- I really appreciate it.

mandy