My impression is that you may be too giving to have a realistic relationship just now. I say "impression" because there is just so much we don't know. But you seem to make compromises like where you apply to school (50 miles away). You say he is "letting" you. That's not the same as asking you. Much less insisting.

You make sacrifices and I think you expect your partner to match you sacrifice for sacrifice. I'm wondering how much you two have really discussed in specific detail about your future together.

If he knew you were alone bar-hopping and he left you to it, I just can't imagine that you are the woman he wants to bind himself to for life, the woman he envisions as the mother of his children. You just don't treat your one true love that way.

Either you two have a serious communication problem, or you just aren't focused on the same future--in my opinion.