Open Eyes.... The good thing is, AJ is talking about it. Trying to understand. A little at a time... His g/f came over tonight and they talked. When they are honest and talk without being defensive, things tend to work out better. I think, in "most cases" men just don't understand. And ta boot, his g/f is very emotional, sometimes even over the top, emotional..Maybe they can still work things out. She has agreed with me, that counseling is still an important step for them.

Grant it, his g/f is very emotional, but that is what makes her in part who she is. But then she is as complicated as AJ.... If they can get the "communication" going, it might help the relationship grow......Guess time will tell.......

Mama won't get in the middle... Just sometimes toss a few ideas to both of them. So far, what I've tossed their way has worked..