I like honesty...I like when people SUPPORT people who they are not upset with nor frustrated with..Its kinder and sez more about everyones growth....I have mixed feeling on deleted..because something said in a cruel way in a pack can make someone look very bad for a LONG time when others research...I will not and cannot judge someone elses progress I think thats up to them and their T..I have come to the point where I do not post at all or post a hug to someone who habitually frustrates me..Its more me than them anyways ....when I react and feel the need to FIX them...Kind is always best....kind and honest is better..I will leave the therapy and tough love to their T