I know what you mean about meds helping for one thing but having the side effect of loss of appetite and weight loss. I, too, am struggling with this. Not only has my mom noticed my lack of appetite, but so has my t. My t is really concerned and is trying to find me a specialist before I get to the point of needing to be hospitalized. I know I need help, I just didn't know how I was going to get it. Do you have someone you feel comfortable talking with about this issue? In my opinion you might want to talk and get help now before it is too late.