(((LovebirdsFlying)))

I can't answer which of these were SA, but having similar experiences, I know the pain and helplessness you have felt. No matter what type of abuse you label each as, these were incidences where you were taken advantage of, and I am sorry for the scars that these bad people caused. I know for me, the worst part of all of the abuse I suffered was that my mother was never around to protect me. I was able to forgive the family members who abused me, but even seven years after my mother's death, I still have not completely forgiven her-unhealthy for me, I know, and I'm trying.

My prayers are with you as you deal with your past.

Bluemountains