You have grown, bear. And while we at PC might let you regress from time to time for a little bit, we will not allow you to stay in the place you are now! You are not stupid, you are not mean, no part of you is. We all make mistakes. We have all made mistakes in the past, and yes, sometimes they continue to affect us. But they are limited, as we are grown wiser now, and stronger. May all of you know that it's ok to not punish yourself for past mistakes