Happycheeks theres lots of reasons why a member doesnt answer you, like me when I get real busy sometimes I dont check my messages for a few days. other times I set the messages so that I dont recieve any messages at all except for the moderators (which of course we members cant shut off. plus sometimes I have to put some members on ignore. when someone shuts off their messages the way I do or place someone on ignore people can send all the messages they want and I wont see them at all. Sometimes I dont even log in. people can read these boards without being logged in. when you arent logged in you cant see whether you have messages. Sometime I will come in and see I have lots of messages and I dont have the time to read and answer them right away......Sometimes I dont bother replying to some messages because to me the messages seem to just be a situaiton where the member needed to let off steam about something or during writing to me they have figured out the solution anyway so there is no need for an answer back.. or I just need time to think on what was written to me....gosh theres all kinds of reasons why someone isnt answering their messages.

please try to not take it personally when someone doesnt message you back. it doesnt always mean someone doesnt like you. they are just using good self care about what they can and cant deal with at that moment.