I have read all your threads about this man, I was first going to answer with something else. But after reading all your threads I think I have a clearer picture.

After having been in an abusive marriage myself., I get the cycle. But what I want to ask you is why? Why do you want to be with an abusive man? Essentially getting your self into an abusive relationship? I know you said you don't understand why his wife would want to stay in a relationship with this man, being as abusive as he has been, they have both been. But why do you want to be with him too??

Personally I think you should be thankful you havnt heard from him and try to move on. You could do alot better. You could find soomeone who isn't abusive, isn't facing jail time, and who isn't married. I really think you should consider this option instead.