Sorry Lovebirdflying, I thought you were only in your teens as well and in your first post you didn't describe the sexual abuse you described in your second post. I only advised on the information you gave, sometimes young teens do get confused about what abuse is and post questions similar to your first post here.

I am sorry you went through so much in your life. wackywidow is right, it is important to get that all out with your therapist. I bet it was good to just release it all here. It took me years to talk about my own abuse. As a matter of fact I was in my 40's when I talked about one, that was years before I felt I could talk about it. It is hard to talk about.

So glad your getting therapy, I can't blame you for not feeling sure about boundaries.
Hopefully you will learn in therapy.

(((((hugs))))

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